What do you do when your buddies throw you in pool at 11pm in the middle of the highveld winter? Well, if you were in Vancouver, like my buddy Wim, you’d have your wife and family calling an ambulance to revive you perhaps… but in Johannesburg you can get thrown in the pool in midwinter and scarper out of it so fast so as not to properly damage your down jacket (well, we’ll see…)
But, you have consider the character of the mates who would do such a thing to you. After watching the great Holland (congratulations Wim!) vs Uraguy game, and in the spirit of Ubuntu (see below) I imagined that we would all be in the same spirit of joy and unabashed fun. but….
Mike Mason, who is the great impersonator of all things offbeat and wild, goaded me on. And Topknott, that great big orangeheaded wingnut built of brawn and character, not only did not come to my aid at the moment of disaster, but actively aided and abbeted in the horrible moment… Spook, whom I have had eons of engaement with, described to me how he narrowly escaped my fate by jumping a narrow part of the pool… but didn’t help me out.. hmm…
And there are several others whom I have a bone to pick with… At one’s time of dire need I imagined that you mates would come along to help you.. out of the pool, not into it.
In retrospect, perhaps I should not have thrown the hosts furniture into the pool though …
Night night all!
PS as an addednum, and an imporatnt one at that, I congratulate the Dutch team in thier win against Uraguy; it was an exciting last few minutes and, as the Uraguyans fought back, we all held our breath hoping that Holland would hold out… and they did. Viva the Hollanders!
Archbishop Desmond Tutu offered a definition in a 1999 book:[3]
A person with Ubuntu is open and available to others, affirming of others, does not feel threatened that others are able and good, for he or she has a proper self-assurance that comes from knowing that he or she belongs in a greater whole and is diminished when others are humiliated or diminished, when others are tortured or oppressed.